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Sunday, June 16, 2013

Teaching Small People About Tiny People

Our church recently completed a unique drive.  It's called the "baby bottle campaign" and its purpose is to raise funds for our state's right to life organization.  The baby bottles are passed out to church families on Mother's Day, filled with change (or "soft money"), and then collected on Father's Day - drawing attention to the fact that both a mother and a father are involved in creating a child's life...and that both are invaluable in making a child's life complete.  The campaign is unique and keeps the right to life issue in the forefront of people's minds.

I receive a "mom-tips/devotional" via email from MomLife Today (a division of FamilyLife Today) and this past week one posting included some creative and sweet ways to introduce or reestablish the value of an unborn baby's life to our children.  I loved some of these ideas and thought you all might as well. These ideas could also easily be incorporated into a Sunday School or children's church setting.  Click here to read the article in its entirety, then if you would like to, feel free to share here on this posting ideas of activities you have used with your children to reinforce this concept that is so vitally important in our world today! 

Thank you to all who take the time to read this blog regularly and especially to those who take time to let us know you are out there!  May God bless you as you continue your ministries for the Kingdom and as you enjoy these hectic summer months with your families!

 
Remembering the tiniest ones,
 


Monday, January 14, 2013

The New Year begins...

Happy New Year!!!
 
 
It’s the start of a new week, a new year.  We have a clean slate, a chance to begin anew, a chance to look ahead…and view with excitement the opportunities that lie before us…and view with some measure of dread the unknowns…
 
Yes, the unknowns.  I know that in all lives, some trouble will fall, but in the lives of some of the dear hearts reading this post, the past year has held much trouble, much heartache, and much sorrow. You have been beaten up emotionally and you wonder if healing will ever come.  Or your heart aches from a loss that has taken your breath away…for weeks or months…And maybe you enter this new year with much trepidation.  Maybe you lack the energy to face the prospect of the long days stretching before you.
 
Friend, take heart.  God is NOT dead!  God has NOT abandoned you!  He still loves and is wildly crazy about you! 
 
Someone asked recently in a Facebook post for some feedback on how others faced life disappointments such as unwanted singleness, a young parent with life-threatening cancer, or a frustrating outcome in one's career.  Many good answers were posted, too many to share here, but I typed the following thoughts (now edited) as my first response:
 
“I believe God allows us to experience some disappointing situations to keep us looking to Him – for if we were happy here, what gain would heaven be to us? Why would we want to keep striving toward that goal? God wants to be the answer to our every need, and we as humans don’t automatically see our need for Him when left on our own.”
 
I am no theologian.  I don’t claim any special wisdom.  But I will say I speak from some experience.  I am in the process of learning this lesson.  It has been a long, hard journey so far, and it’s not over.  Experiencing the life changes that come with a loved one battling cancer has caused major perspective adjustments, to say the least.
 
One of the major life lessons God has been so patiently urging me to learn is this lesson that HE wants to be THE answer for my every need. He longs for me to look to Him for strength for every minute of every hour.  He wants me to take my hurting heart to Him…to share those deep emotional needs with Him and allow His balm of mercy and grace to sooth and comfort like no human can.  He alone can fill the hole in my heart that I often look to others to fill.  My husband is not capable of filling this need…my children don’t want to even try…my best friends may feel too much pressure from me and may back away if I become too dependent on them.
 
Friends, look up!  God is ever ready to meet our needs, to hold us up when we feel unsteady, to bring us joy when all we feel is despair! 
 
But we have to let Him.
 
Are you facing the new year with some trepidation? Has the past year been something more difficult than you had bargained for?  Are there unknowns ahead that have your gut twisting and your heart pounding?  If not, this new year is wide open – full of opportunities for you to touch lives for Christ and make memories to last a life-time.  If so, what about taking the following Scriptures and songs to heart? Meditate on them, listen to and worship with them…and let the love, grace, strength, and soothing balm of the presence of the Holy Spirit fill the hurt places and calm the troubled waters of your soul.  Release the regrets of the past to His forgiveness, the stresses of the day into His capable hands, and the unknowns of the future into His almighty wisdom.  Rest, be renewed, and re-energized…for this new year is a chance!  A chance to experience God in new ways…a chance to learn just how much He cares for you…a chance to trust and see that trust rewarded with new levels of grace and strength for every new trial…
 
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness. Isaiah 41:10
 
The Lord is gracious, and full of compassion; slow to anger, and of great mercy.  The Lord is good to all: and his tender mercies are over all his works.  The Lord upholdeth all that fall, and raiseth up all those that be bowed down.  The Lord is nigh unto all them that call upon him, to all that call upon him in truth.
Psalm 145: 8, 9, 14, 18
 
Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee:
he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.
Psalm 55:22
 
 When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee;
and through the rivers,
they shall not overflow thee: when thou walkest through the fire,
thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee.
Isaiah 43:2
 
What a Precious Friend Is He   Lyrics   Listen
Great is Thy Faithfulness  Lyrics  Listen
He Giveth More Strength Lyrics Listen
(notice the little-known third verse...it's a favorite of mine!)
I’m Gonna Make It  Listen
Dear hearts, be encouraged!  God has your very best in mind…He loves you so much!  He wants you to be heavenly minded and Him-focused….relaxed and refreshed by trusting fully in His control…joyful and serene because you have experienced His care…
Maybe you'd like to share a promise you are claiming for 2013!  We'd love to hear from you!
 

Remembering that "life isn't fair, but God is faithful,"

 
 

Friday, July 6, 2012

How We: Save Money on Family Vacations

Vacation! Just the word conjures up feelings of excitement, images of frothy waves rushing ashore, mouth-watering cravings for crunchy-sweet funnel cakes, sounds of laughter and children's squeals, and the scent of 
sunscreen, salty ocean air, or fresh mountain breezes.  

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Or maybe the word "vacation" brings feelings of stress, images of evaporating money, cravings for a fat wallet, sounds of the cash register's cha-ching!, and the scent of gasoline. Taking a family on a vacation can be pricey and nerve-wracking, to say the least. Today's economy certainly doesn't help. Does that mean we have to forego having a fun time away with our kiddos? Nope! But, it will take some planning, research, and string-pulling to make it happen. Here are a few tips that I've either used myself or about which I've heard positive reports. 

Gotta Get There First
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I don't know about you, but the first concerns that come to mind at our house when we talk about going anywhere are...you guessed it...gas and hotel/cabin prices. I've looked up a few sites that might help with finding cheap gas:
Also, don't forget about the gas perks offered by grocery chains. It's a great way to save money on gas! 

A Place to Land
In my opinion, the place you stay can make or break your vacation. But maybe that's just me. We've saved money on a motel before without doing it as cautiously as we should have...and we were miserable. The room was filthy. So, when trying to save a few bucks on a motel room or cabin, do it carefully and consider what's important to you! 

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It takes hours of research to find a good deal on a great room. (Well, it does for me. Please don't laugh, and, if you have pointers on how to do it in just a few minutes, please don't tell me...yet.) I hope these tips will make that time frame a little shorter for you. 

You've heard of sites like Priceline.comTravelocity.comExpedia.com, and Hotwire.com. I've used some of theses sites, but usually only to help me find motels and to read reviews. You can find good rates in this way, but I always recommend calling the hotel directly, just to be sure you have the best rate. 

Another thing to keep in mind is that, no matter what the site says, you do not have to separate your family into two rooms, unless, of course, you have so many children that they really won't fit into one room. We have four children and they can still sleep like puppies; piled any old place. We've been told by some hotels (when calling the main reservation number) that we would need to get two rooms, but we've never done it. We either called the hotel directly and found out that that wasn't, in fact, a requirement, or we've used a different hotel. 

Review the Reviews
As I mentioned before, the sites listed above are great for reviews. Don't trust photos of hotels or even the name of a well-known chain to ensure a nice, clean room or good service. Do trust the reviews of actual customers, if the majority agrees and if the review has been posted recently. It's a let down to arrive at your destination and discover that your room is dirty and the service is poor. 

Boarding Your Pet
Our Shorkie, Snickers :)
We have a tiny, four-pound Shorkie. We love that little dog, but it's a little difficult to figure out what we should do with him when we go on a trip. Do we take him, or board him near home? If we take him, do we board him near the hotel, or haul him around with us? The best choice, usually, seems to be to take him with us and board him, at least during the day, near where we're vacationing. That way we don't stress about him, but we don't have to deal with dragging the poor little thing around all day. Here are a few sites where you can find listings of Pet-Sitters/Boarders. 


DruryHotels.com
A Personal Plug, If I May
I'd like to put a plug in here for a hotel where we stayed once; Drury Inn. The room was one of the nicest we've seen, the service was amazing, the amenities were better than most, and the price was very reasonable. One of the biggest pluses for us was the fact that they were pet-friendly and didn't charge extra for our dog. We'd love to stay at these hotels wherever we go, but, I guess we just haven't gone to the right places. :)


Admission Fees
So, you're there, you've got a place to stay, now what? Admission prices can deplete a family budget in no time flat. There are ways to bring down the cost, however. 

Of course, being a member of a club like AAA makes it easy to get discounts at many places, but you can get some discounts without being a member of a club. 
  • Student discounts
  • Homeschool discounts
  • Group Discounts
  • Minister's Discounts
  • Military Discounts
If you are a college student, or have school-age children, you may be eligible for discounts at quite a few museums, parks, etc. Many are even free! The same goes for homeschoolers. It never hurts to ask! You just might be surprised who offers these discounts, and how deep those discounts are! 


Ripleys.com

Case in point: We stopped by Gatlinburg on our way home from a campmeeting once. I knew that Ripley's Aquarium of the Smokies offered a sizable discount to homeschoolers, but I knew they required paperwork before they'd give that discount. Since we hadn't planned on this little mini-vacation I didn't have the paperwork with me, but I thought I'd take my chances and ask. Couldn't hurt. I explained the situation to the man at the ticket counter and, after just a few moments of consideration, he said (rather apologetically, I thought) "How does half-off sound?" How does it SOUND? It sounded fantastic! Our family of five (I think we only had three children at the time) got in for around $35! Now beat that! I was very, very grateful. That was several years ago, but you can be sure that the next time we plan to visit Ripley's Aquarium, I'll have the necessary documents/cards in hand and I'll ask about getting that discount again!  
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If you have several children and are traveling with other family members or friends, you may qualify for a group discount. I've never done this, but I don't know why it wouldn't work. It's worth checking into. 

If there is a member of the family who is in the ministry, you may get a discount at certain hotels and cabin rental agencies. These discounts aren't as plentiful as the others, but they're around. You just have to ask. 

If you're a member of the military, you should be aware of the many, well-deserved Military Discounts available to you. 

Tips on eating out frugally will be addressed on the blog at a later date, so I'll just add this: 

  • Decide if you want to cook while you're on vacation, eat out, or a combination of the two. Plan and buy accordingly.
  • If you're eating out, you may want to make sure that the prices don't skyrocket at dinnertime. Once, when we went to one of our favorite restaurants in Pigeon Forge, we arrived just a few minutes after the price change and the difference was ridiculous! We knew better the next time, I can assure you.
  • Don't forget the coupons! Retail Me Not is a great, safe site where you'll find coupons to meet your needs. 

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Go Local
If you simply can't swing an "away" vacation, it might still be possible to have a staycation, or to spend one night at a local hotel. Take some snacks, movies, and games, and enjoy the togetherness of family.Plan visits to local museums, zoos, and historical landmarks. You might be surprised at the fun stuff located in your own backyard! 

Go Off-Season
One of our favorite traditions is to head to the beach in December or January. We load up with games, snacks, and movies, rent an ocean-front suite, and have a blast. The cost of a deluxe suite, in the off-season, can be as low as the cost of a regular hotel room. 

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If at all possible, unless you particularly enjoy crowds and price-hikes, it's always best to visit tourist areas in the off-season. You'll be amazed at the difference in cost, and you'll find your vacation far quieter and more relaxing. Do be aware, however, that all of the attractions may not be open. 

Ready, Set, Go!
Well, this post got rather long-ish! But I do hope it's helpful to you as you plan your next vacation.
Have a fun, safe, and happy summer!


Saturday, October 22, 2011

LInks for Further Reading

MARRIAGE:
Couple Married 72 Years Dies Holding Hands @ Noble Womanhood

CHILDREN:
Jessica's Note: I just found this blog through a link-up on Raising Homemakers (http://raisinghomemakers.com/). A mom shares a glimpse into her homeschool. I love blogs like this!

HOME:
Time Saving Cleaning Tips

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Weekly Link List for Further Reading

MARRIAGE:
Being Chaste in Marriage
The Bravest and Most Beautiful Affair
Jennifer's note: I love both of these posts....the first to remind me to guard carefully what I have and the second to enjoy it with abandon.

HOME:
Creating Home of Refuge

CHILDREN:
Thoughts on Parenting and Parenting Resources
Jessica's Note: I have not listened to the audio, but this is an excellent article.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Links: The Joy of Reading

Not sure where to start in reading with your children? Here are a lot of recommended books from other mom bloggers.

Disclaimer: Please use your own discretion on these. I have not had time to personally review each book on each list. This is just a starting place for you as you encourage your children to read and read with them.

The Boy's List @ Preschoolers and Peace
Find Good Books @ Good Books for Kids
Favorite Books for Beginning Readers @ Raising Olives
The Family That Reads Together: Recommended Read Alouds @ Passionate Homemaking
Book Lists for Daughters @ A Wise Woman Builds Her Home
Book Lists for Daughters @ Raising Homemakers

Saturday, July 30, 2011

Links: Living a Life of Modesty

Disclaimer: Each of us are at a different place in our walk with the Lord. Just because a site has a certain article of clothing or an article mentions a specific about modesty doesn't mean I endorse it one way or the other. These are just listed as helps to you as you strive to find God's will for you in regards to modesty. 

Modest Clothing Sites:

The Modest Mom
Style J Denim Skirts
Modest Clothes Directory
Hannah Lise
Dressing For His Glory

Must-Read Articles: 

Learning to Dress Modestly @ The Modest Mom Blog
Tell Her Mama! @ Raising Homemakers
Modest Dress: The Heart of the Issue @ Large Families on Purpose
She Wears Skirts Series @ Raising Arrows
God Given Protection for Women @ Joy Ever After (yes, shameless plug! ;-)