Friday, January 9, 2009
Castle vs. Palace
My dabblings in the study of castles is by no means extensive, but what I have learned seems to be a fitting analogy of the Proverbs 31 style home to which God has called us. Many people suppose that I am speaking of a palace or a manor when I mention a castle. On the contrary, I am not painting a picture of a opulent lifestyle as the standard by which we should run our homes. There is one fundamental difference between today's luxurious palaces and the castles of yesterday functioning as they were originally intended.
Castles were primarily built for defense while palaces were primarily built as showcases. Modern home magazines major on the showcase value of our home. Everything in perfect condition, pristine and untouched. Beauty to be admired but never marred by real living. Castles did double as homes for the lord and lady, but their aesthetic touches were few. The main purpose of a castle was to protect the lord's family from danger.
Figuratively, we as Christian families are endangered in a world that attacks the Biblical roles of men, women and family. Our homes are not places to sequester ourselves indefinitely, but they do provide a respite from the onslaughts of a secular culture as a place to refuel for our real work in preparing a lost world for eternity. This is an idea straight from the pages of God's Word. As women, we are called to keep the home. This doesn't mean necessarily to clean the home or to keep at home. It means to guard as a shepherd would keep or guard his sheep: to lovingly, tenderly manage the home and the people that live there. I see the mother not as a weak doormat of a wife who slaves away to make her husband and children happy, but as the strong guard of her home ready at a second's notice to banish anything or anyone that would threaten the spiritual well-being of her family.
With Joy,
Lady Jen
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ReplyDeleteThe Proverbs 31 Woman :
10An excellent wife, who can find?
For her worth is far above jewels.
rare, precious
11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
And he will have no lack of gain.
trustworthy
12She does him good and not evil
All the days of her life.
kind
Her Character
as a Wife
13She looks for wool and flax
And works with her hands in delight.
works joyfully
14She is like merchant ships;
She brings her food from afar.
goes extra mile to get choicest goods
15She rises also while it is still night
And gives food to her household
And portions to her maidens.
disciplined
16She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard.
enterprising, prudent with money
17She girds herself with strength
And makes her arms strong.
energetic
18She senses that her gain is good;
Her lamp does not go out at night.
good steward
19She stretches out her hands to the distaff,
And her hands grasp the spindle.
diligent
Her Devotion
as a Homemaker
20She extends her hand to the poor,
And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
compassionate, generous
Her Generosity
as a Neighbor
21She is not afraid of the snow for her household,
For all her household are clothed with scarlet.
provident
22She makes coverings for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
elegant
23Her husband is known in the gates,
When he sits among the elders of the land.
influential
24She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen.
industrious
Her Devotion
as a Homemaker
25Strength and dignity are her clothing,
And she smiles at the future.
poised
26She opens her mouth in wisdom,
And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
wise
Her Influence
as a Teacher
27She looks well to the ways of her household,
And does not eat the bread of idleness.
manages her home
28Her children rise up and bless her;
Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:
praiseworthy
29"Many daughters have done nobly,
But you excel them all."
distinguished
Her Effectiveness
as a Mother
30Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,
But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
God-fearing
31Give her the product of her hands,
And let her works praise her in the gates.
honored
Her Excellence
as a Person
~ Proverbs 31:10-3