tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post7989267697259178729..comments2024-01-26T21:30:41.564-05:00Comments on Cherish the Call: Investing Our ChildrenJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05629737271425395168noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-82039594646772521732009-03-07T06:14:00.000-05:002009-03-07T06:14:00.000-05:00Kelly,Thank you for those great thoughts. I apprec...Kelly,<BR/>Thank you for those great thoughts. I appreciate hearing from a former teacher who validates homeschooling. There are a few homeschooling families that cloister their children, but I think homeschooling for the most part sets us free to enjoy real learning.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05629737271425395168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-59504622729115578842009-03-07T00:54:00.000-05:002009-03-07T00:54:00.000-05:00What a wonderfully written and timely post, Lady J...What a wonderfully written and timely post, Lady Jen! I've been told before that my plans for our children are too sheltering, but I don't see any harm in homeschooling, giving our kids quality experiences and being available to guide them lovingly. A toddler needs her parents to guide her with making good decisions about sharing and being polite, a teenager needs her parents to help her make decisions about friendships and what to do after high school, and a grown child needs her parents to guide her in encouragement when it comes to child-raising and marriage. An adult doesn't need the same amount of teaching and guidance as a two year old, so parenting by Christian values isn't about sheltering - it's about being there to guide as Christ would do. He brings us to Him, feeding us milk at first, but then moving onto food - the Bread of Life - when milk simply isn't enough. I think that it's the same way with children. I praise God that I've been given the wonderful blessing to parent my two lovelly daughters (and more children if God wills it). I look forward to homeschooling (and I'm a former teacher, private and public so I've seen both sides) and I enjoy being a SAHM and family-devoted. Sheltering? That's a tent when you're camping, not applicable to wisely and lovingly guiding your child according to the season of her life. :o)<BR/><BR/>Again, great post! Enjoy your weekend, mama!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-22483299674620867532009-03-05T21:30:00.000-05:002009-03-05T21:30:00.000-05:00Thank you, Joy! I know it made a big impact on my ...Thank you, Joy! I know it made a big impact on my daughter when we witnessed to a cashier at a small shop. She still asks to pray for her every night.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05629737271425395168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-71147507538949382312009-03-05T21:16:00.000-05:002009-03-05T21:16:00.000-05:00I agree with mrs hester. I think a wonderful way ...I agree with mrs hester. I think a wonderful way to get your kids interested in the Lord's work is to have them do it with you!! It could be anything from praying for the grocery store worker you just met, taking treats to the neighbors, visiting a nursing home, or taking a missions trip together. <BR/>And, I agree with you Lady Jen, most of the homeschoolers I have encountered are very integrated, it just looks different than the classroom setting. Most of us homeschool, not because we can't let our kids go, but for many other reasons, one of which would be to have an even greater impact on society in the future, not to keep them home and suffocated.<BR/>Blessings,<BR/>JoyJoy @ SAH Missionaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15447727723922100445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-86329544469925909702009-03-05T20:40:00.000-05:002009-03-05T20:40:00.000-05:00Jade,There's no need to worry about any more than ...Jade,<BR/>There's no need to worry about any more than one year at a time. If you decide to do something the first year of school and it doesn't work, you can always change the next year.<BR/><BR/>Those are great ideas, Home Grown Academy!<BR/><BR/>Sarah,<BR/>You have never seen homeschoolers in action. Homeschooled children integrate with ALL age groups REGULARLY--not just their peers in a classroom where they don't even get to interact except at recess time. The big joke among homeschool moms is we are rarely home because we do so much more with our kids. Just this month my daughter had a field trip with a group of homeschool kids, a class at the zoo with another group of homeschool kids and an art class at the library with another group of homeschoolers in addition to the regular schoolwork.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05629737271425395168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-13854778927885221062009-03-05T12:07:00.000-05:002009-03-05T12:07:00.000-05:00I could be wrong, but this is how I feel. I feel t...I could be wrong, but this is how I feel. I feel that many parents have no real intention of letting their kids go, the mere fact that they are homeschooled proves this point. If you cannot allow your child to integrate with other children and get a decent education at the same time, will you ever release your child? You're holding unto almost every second of their lives by keeping them suffocated in your home just so that you can enjoy their funny moments when teaching them and so you can be the one to say I taught them this and I taught them that.<BR/><BR/>I feel that many parents won't release their children when they are older. I've read on other blogs where parents are planning to choose who their children date, how they date they other person and they are already deciding their children will not work, it sounds like you're all raising your children to be like the children in the book Flowers in the Atic. Will they ever be able to lead normal lives and integrate in the community? There is more to integration than feeding the poor.S E Harveyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13353593578893195586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-54930855264432611552009-03-05T00:53:00.000-05:002009-03-05T00:53:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.S E Harveyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13353593578893195586noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-85253302196332857742009-03-04T22:33:00.000-05:002009-03-04T22:33:00.000-05:00My husband and I have been discussing this very th...My husband and I have been discussing this very thing. Even our Sunday School class has been discussing this. One way that we feel led is to start serving together as a family at a local soup kitchen. Also another way to serve in our local community in making scarfs, hats and afghans and quilts to give out to the less fortunate and homeless. Have our family pray for all and for God to show us other areas we can help. <BR/><BR/>Our Sunday School class is also starting to take collections up for us to be able to provide a full course meal at a local soup kitchen here. And what is left of our collections to pray that God show us where to use it.Lots 2 Luv Designshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09205884724466211083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-53399181762468476512009-03-04T15:53:00.000-05:002009-03-04T15:53:00.000-05:00I really enjoyed your post today. Raleigh and I h...I really enjoyed your post today. Raleigh and I have been discussing how to integrate our kids a little more into the community. We have decided, once they get old enough that we would like to volunteer at the local Soup Kitchen as a family. I've volunteered before and really enjoyed it. I want my kids to see that God loves everyone, no matter, their size, shape or color. As far as fear goes,I'm still debating between homeschooling, private school, or public school. I just have to remember that they are God's children and I have to trust him to help me make the right choices as a parent to them. But, I still am scared of making the wrong choice that will have a negative impact on them the rest of their life. THis is something that I"m working on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-60566242938005661412009-03-04T13:02:00.000-05:002009-03-04T13:02:00.000-05:00That's a beautiful way to minister with our childr...That's a beautiful way to minister with our children, Mrshester! All of us might not have an opportunity to go to another country, but who knows what we can do in our own communities?Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05629737271425395168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6483426192416204879.post-5568301516454936472009-03-04T09:54:00.000-05:002009-03-04T09:54:00.000-05:00I don't have any children so my thoughts may be mo...I don't have any children so my thoughts may be moot on this subject. However, I wanted to share what I see and find refreshing about other families. Using personal time to serve others. Whether they homeschool or are enrolled in public school, all kids probably have a "summer break". Why not use some of that break to serve others through missionary work? It could be in a soup kitchen or a homeless shelter here within our borders, or it could be in another country, spreading the Gospel of Jesus and taking supplies to permanent missionaries. I recently saw an episode of "17 Kids and Counting" where the father actually took his older children to a South American country to help other missionaries, and thought, "Wow, he cares so much to teach his kids what service is that he would drag them to another country" and the children were reminded what it means to be a worker for the Lord. I imagine that experience would plant seeds we can only think of now.mrshesterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08935940573148075717noreply@blogger.com